Start 30 dating 20

30 dating 20

By our 30s, we care less about how we look and more about just straight up enjoying it. We believe in past lives, we yell VERY loudly when we get excited about something, we like , going to bed by p.m., and finding the perfect wine (to the point of sometimes being called a "wine snob") and I -- oops I mean, we -- have no need to hide or change those aspects of ourselves.

There is a part deep inside of us that believes in "real, ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't live without each other love," to quote the famous Carrie Bradshaw.

You still have plenty of age-appropriate single people to choose from.

No one bats an eye if you hook up with a 45-year-old. 30-somethings own a french press (or just a really nice coffee maker).

In fact, I think dating in your 30s is actually pretty rad! A lot of us who are single now in our 30s spent our 20s focused on building careers, traveling, or figuring out who we are and what's important to us.