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I’m allowed to decide I don’t want to sleep with a guy, regardless of how sweet he is, without having to explain myself.

But if I don’t want to reenact the lyrics to a Prince song with you after a couple of dates, that’s a major red flag.

I sometimes think about Drew, and wonder if he found an equally Nice Girl to bring up to his summer share in Southampton.

After matching on Tinder, Drew and I met for drinks.

He talked about how much he loved his family, his spacious one-bedroom apartment, his summer share in the Hamptons, and how he wanted kids one day — the typical first-date catnip that’s par for the course in New York City.

I can know as soon as date one, but surely by the time we’ve hung out on three occasions, the answer should be clear, one way or the other.

If the answer is still “I’m not sure” by the time I get into a cab after date three, then the answer is really no, and I should move the hell on.

So, like my mother predicted, that makes him a really Nice Guy.

I hear this all the time: "There are no good men out there"; or this: "There are no good women." Usually the speaker illustrates one of the assertions with a sad or funny dating story that ends either with resignation to single status or with anger at the depressing situation he or she "has to" endure.

And just like rock beats scissors, whether or not I want to strip down in front of you trumps niceness.

Hopefully, I’ll one day find a Nice Guy with whom I also want to pole vault into bed.

I listen sympathetically but don't share the conclusions. Mature singles have plenty of great people to choose from; but of course, you have to know where to look.